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So many Thanksgivings, and thank the good Lord for it!

So many Thanksgivings, and thank the good Lord for it! I am grateful to again be spending the day with some of the people that I love most in this world, happily participating in our holiday traditions. My three favorites: a. Grateful Leaves: where everyone writes 5 things they’re grateful for. After collecting them, I read each aloud, embellishing them with words they should’ve said, and having everyone guess who the leaf belongs to b. Our version of the “Plaza Lighting Ceremony,” which was always held outside our home, since we were hosting a huge crowd of not just our […]

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Thanksgiving 2017

So many Thanksgivings, and thank the good Lord for it! I am grateful to again be spending the day with some of the people that I love most in this world, happily participating in our holiday traditions. My three favorites: a. Grateful Leaves: where everyone writes 5 things they’re grateful for. After collecting them, I read each aloud, embellishing them with words they should’ve said, and having everyone guess who the leaf belongs to b. Our version of the “Plaza Lighting Ceremony,” which was always held outside our home, since we were hosting a huge crowd of not just our […]

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Me, in front of my dorm in Salem, West Virginia; a little over 4 years after my 1st Grateful Dead show at Watkins Glen

Me, in front of my dorm in Salem, West Virginia; a little over 4 years after my 1st Grateful Dead show at Watkins Glen. Today also happens to be 40 years to the moment that I hooked up with my Big Mistake, otherwise known as Funk. Guess where we’re heading tonight? Yes! To another Grateful Dead show! My first in Washington, DC. I’ve got my fingers and legs crossed that we won’t be but two among a bunch of DC Preppies or Falling-Down-Stoners. More to come. For now, Happy Almost Thanksgiving!

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Another Grateful Dead Show!

Another Grateful Dead Show! June 13, 2018: MY boys are smokin. So proud and thrilled to see them all keeping healthy and fit. The new members have come into the fold as if they were there all along, making this 50+ year band still appealing across multi-generational lines. June 16, 2018: Well, there’s one good thing that’s come about from my brother unexpectedly dropping dead. Funk wanted to cheer me up so he brought me to another Dead Show. Imagine that, a twofer, and on the eve of Father’s Day, his special day! The funks are present. All love. xo

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I should’ve raised my kids with guilt

I should’ve raised my kids with guilt. But no, I was trying to be the best mom in the world. I did everything opposite of what my parents did. I told my children how beautiful they were, how smart, how funny. Instilled in them how they had to be respectful of others, yet said how they should never take sh*t from anyone who didn’t return the favor. Made it such that they’d get a shiver of revulsion if they attempted something important in the usual, conventional ways. And encouraged them to not only follow their dreams, but to make them […]

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I should’ve raised my kids with guilt

But no, I was trying to be the best mom in the world. I did everything opposite of what my parents did. I told my children how beautiful they were, how smart, how funny. Instilled in them how they had to be respectful of others, yet said how they should never take sh*t from anyone who didn’t return the favor. Made it such that they’d get a shiver of revulsion if they attempted something important in the usual, conventional ways. And encouraged them to not only follow their dreams, but to make them happen. In effect, it was my mission […]

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